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#8 Be Professional: how to make a great first impression

As a business owner, micro entrepreneur and professional in your field, it is important to look and sound good; to be able to speak clearly and intelligently about what you do and the ideas you have in an authentic way. Making a good first impression will help sustain and promote trust in your, your products, services and, of course, your brand.

“You never get a second chance to make a good first impression.”

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When we start a business we will find ourselves in front of people.

We might be:

  • Meeting
  • Presenting
  • Pitching
  • Networking
  • Teaching
  • Negotiating

But because our brain’s have been hardwired to spot danger with split second processing of sight and sound before anything else, when we meet new people studies tell us that our first impression of them, and they of us, is based on:

55% of what we SEE 

38% of the SOUND we hear  

and only,

7% of the actual words SPOKEN

Think about a situation where you have seen someone unfamiliar to you. Perhaps they were shouting and being loud. Did it make you anxious? But when you heard what they were saying your first impression was wrong. For this reason we should always guard against prejudice and making assumptions about people we don’t know.

 93% of someone’s first impression of us has nothing to do with what we are actually saying

and everything to do with what they see and how we sound.

So, to get someone’s full attention, it is important to look and sound worth listening to.

Being the focus of attention, however, can be uncomfortable. Talking to people about ourselves, our ideas and services, be it two or 200, is not easy, especially given the pressure of knowing that how accomplished we are has a direct impact on our brand and business prospects.

For this reason, no time or effort to improve our engagement and presentation skills is ever wasted. It can also have a positive impact on our wider lives.

Look good – what people see

Professionals should look, well… professional!

Within every trade and sector there is usually an acceptable way to dress. Think of lawyers, dentists, builders or yoga teachers. All very different. These may be traditions that you are keen to change. If so, great! It may help you stand out from your competitors. How you present yourself should be part of your wider brand and it’s completely your choice. BUT whatever you choose to wear there are some universal truths when you want to attract and engage others.

You have to look like you care…

  1. Look fresh
  2. Smell good
  3. Smile – there has never been and will never be a better way to engage another human being than a smile. It’s hard not to return!

When you take care of your appearance, others will take note.

Sound good – what people hear

To capture people’s attention here are the top three things to think about when talking to people face-to-face.

  1. Breathe – use breathing exercises before you begin to calk your nerves, slow your heart rate, control your voice, clear your mind and relax your body. You will find an easy-to-follow breathing exercise later in this guide…
  2. Open up – crossing your arms or holding them tightly to your sides is your body language signalling, “I’m not comfortable and not approachable” and when we are nervous it is a natural defence mechanism to stand or sit this way. To prevent this, breathe, drop your shoulders and loosen up your arms by bending them slightly at the elbow. If it helps clasp a few fingers lightly in front of you until you feel more relaxed. When talking it’s good to use gestures but keep them light and varied. Don’t point. Pointing can be seen as aggressive, it’s better to keep an open hand signalling transparency.
  3. Slow down – if there is one thing that instantly improves our speech and delivery it is to simply slow down (and breathe). It’s also about pace and building in “understanding space” around important facts, figures and ideas. Don’t be afraid of moments of silence like these. A pause before or after a key piece of information can be very powerful because it:
    • Allows your listener to process what you are saying
    • Displays your confidence and builds trust
    • Gives you a chance to breathe and a moment to decide what to say next!

Speak authentically – what you say

When you have got people’s attention, it’s time to tell them what they want to know, or, better still, what they didn’t think they wanted to know but now find completely fascinating.

“Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken.” Oscar Wilde

Here are the top tips for speaking with authority and authenticity:

  1. Be yourself – it’s less exhausting and you won’t slip up.
  2. Adapt what you say to your audience – the size, their interest and prior knowledge.
  3. Don’t use jargon – it won’t make you sound clever. Your audience will simply lose interest and think you’re a bit of an idiot.
  4. Don’t use three words when one will do – you will just get tangled up and trip over your own thoughts.
  5. Be confident – but don’t lie or embellish the facts. You’ll get found out.
  6. Show your passion – people love people who love what they do. If you think it’s better to be ‘cool’ see point three.